3rd Column Words
|Ambitions||Your plans or great desires.|
|Self-Esteem||What we think of ourselves.|
|Emotional Security||Exposure to feelings of apprehension or doubt.|
|Personal Security||Exposure to danger, risk or safety to physical well-being.|
|Financial Security||Wanting money, property, clothing, housing, cars, etc. in order to be secure.|
|Personal Relationships||Our relations with other human beings and the world around us. Involves a third party. (Note: do not use person from column one, only others around us).|
|Sex Relations||Our sex lives.|
|Fear||A feeling of anxiety, agitation, uneasiness, apprehension, etc. May be temporary or continual.|
4th Column Words
|Selfish||Influenced by personal motives to the disregard of the welfare or wishes of others. (Also includes: Did the person act the way I wanted them to? Did that person act the way they did because of something I don’t know about or understand?)|
|Self-Seeking||The interest in furthering one’s own interests or advancing one’s own ends among others. Effecting how others perceive me. Trying to have a reputation that is not deserved.|
|Dishonest||1) By Commission: To commit, to do, to act on, out and out lies.
2) By Omission: To omit. What I didn’t say. Information I did not provide. Did I tell them what I needed, how I felt or what I thought? Have I been honest with myself?
|Frightened||Afraid. Fear, especially that which arises from apprehension. May result from reliance upon people, places and things instead of having faith in a Higher Power.|
|Inconsiderate||Lack of consideration about how another person felt, their wants, their needs, their beliefs, or how I affected them?|
|Pride||High or inordinate opinion of one’s own dignity, importance, merit or superiority, whether as cherished in the mind or displayed in bearing, conduct, etc.; pleasure or satisfaction taken in something done by or belonging to oneself.|
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